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The comments section is full of great stuff! smile


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Abbrba I don't post here much although I'm a regular reader. I lost my marriage due to his affair many years ago, and I followed your story. I'm so so sorry to read on your profile timeline that you've now filed for divorce. I always thought that you seemed a great guy and that your wife would eventually see the light but she obviously didn't. Damned waywards!. I know how hard you fought to keep it all together and I'm so sorry.

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The comments tell you people have no idea about how adultery works.

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Originally Posted by prettypearl
Abbrba I don't post here much although I'm a regular reader. I lost my marriage due to his affair many years ago, and I followed your story. I'm so so sorry to read on your profile timeline that you've now filed for divorce. I always thought that you seemed a great guy and that your wife would eventually see the light but she obviously didn't. Damned waywards!. I know how hard you fought to keep it all together and I'm so sorry.

Thank you, prettypearl, I appreciate it. Actually it was WW who filed for D, two days after I exposed. Though my Plan A didn't make a dent in her waywardness, I'll be able to look back knowing I tried everything possible to save my M.


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Originally Posted by My4Loves
The comments tell you people have no idea about how adultery works.

Indeed, there are a lot of condemnations of the BS for not keeping the matter private. Though, I do see quite a few comments condemning adultery, and the WW and OM, so at least some people on there have their moral bearings.


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Thats awesome! Wish more people would sue. Maybe fewer people would have affairs.


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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wa...someone-for-having-sex-with-your-spouse/

I thought this was a good article too, referencing the same situation. Good for that husband!

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If only it was a legal option everywhere. shocked



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