Even if your WW follows through with leaving her job, the advice does not change to expose far and wide - beginning with the OM BW.

Why are you posting here if you are not interested in following MB?

None of anything you wrote has anything to do with following the Marriage Builders plan for recovery. Right now you are setting yourself up for a FR - false recovery.

There is no point of you posting here if you do not want to do MB.

Following d-day within a span of about 1 week I was able to expose, move my exH out of my home, take care of my two young children, work full time, etc, despite being in several emotional distress and having daily panic attacks.

If you are able to make these posts, then you are able to expose so please stop it.

Haven't posted in a while, I was injured with work and ha an extensive recovery process.

The exposure has not gone as I had hoped. The OMs wife responded back that it was BS and told me to leave her family alone. The WS family has split with most taking her side and saying they don't believe me and will not even talk to me now. One couple on her side actually believes me and they are becoming estranged from the rest of the family. Even my siblings have taken sides and a younger sibling is furious that I made a family issue public. Most of my extended family has been supportive, but say they still love both and not taking sides. Most of our mutual friends have either remained neutral or taken her side and see me as this completely evil person and will not even talk to me. A couple of my close friends have been very supportive, but at least one told me how wrong it was to damage my wife's reputation and that a gentleman does not make his family issues public. So even some of my friends avoid me now.

So unsure as to what to do now. She has moved out to another home and we still communicate on a regular basis. Keeps telling me she loves me, but just can never forgive me for the exposure. She's a master of deflecting the issues back at me. Still keeps insisting it was not a physical relationship. Though the MC said even if it wasn't physical it was still an affair.

I've grown weary of being seen as the bad person, I wasn't the one who was doing anything wrong.

I read your previous post and did not read anywhere where you exposed. When did you expose? How did you do it? Who did you expose to?

Did you ever change your traveling job? Did your WW ever leave her job?

Like I said I was injured so was laid up almost a year with multiple surgeries. I did the exposure before the first surgery.

Exposed a verity of ways. Was unable to get his spouses phone number so sent a letter and FB messenger. I went to the president of the company in person. With our family and friends was a combination of FB messenger, in person and telephone calls. Some of the family refused to even listen and said they would not get involved with our issues. One mutual friend unfriended and blocked me on FB. They have utter hatred for me now..

The WW did did leave the job and did not even work the two weeks notice.
For the year I was layed up the WW was constantly by my side and was an incredible care giver. The week after exposure to her family the initial anger dissipated, but she has said it was unforgivable.

The traveling was not an issue for a year, but have started working again. Have offered to leave job, but still working. Figure nice she moved out would keep job for now.