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Just wondered if you're now here in the land of the humidity and the home of the Astros.<P>I know you said you would have to be on borrowed computers, but I just wondered how things were going. Hopefully ok.<P>Let us know if you get the chance.<P>Steve

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Hi, <P>I've been concerned about Sing also. Pushing this to the top. <P>L.

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Me too...<P>oooohhhhh sing, where are you??? [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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Hey guys I made it. I really did post yesterday but I am using the computers at the library & by the time I got here my time was up & I thought I pressed the right button but there was this very impatinent man wanting this computer.<P>Well for a shor update, we were returning, not returning for the last 12 hrs before we left. Mon night H came home from a dinner meeting saying that he didn't think he could break off with OW, I said thanks for waiting to the last minute. OS heard us, we went back & forth, finally we weren't coming back, next morining, He cantleave the boys,etc. I finally get mad & tell him it is too late, i am tired of the waffling, how would i ever know, he keeps saying I will try. I am just about hystrical, he then says stay here but I told him even though I wanted to work things out with out all my heart, we had to get OS back for summer school. So we leave, H last words to me as we pass through the custom check points was I will try.<P>So we travel for 27 hrs with me trapped between my sons with this on my heart. I had no idea if we are staying or not. Then we get an added 2 hrs flying over TX as we can't land in HOuston due to the topical strom, we finally land, get a taxi to drive us out this way, have to go through high water, thought we get stuck, so we arrive at 1 am, 30 plus hrs of travling.<P>Next morning finally get hold of H. he wants to know what we are doing, told him I thought we were trying. he says think about it, he call in about 12 hrs. we call think we have decided to try.<P>Thursday I can check email, & I get into his, well he is telling OW, that our house is packed, & does she really want to work on them, there was lots of other stuff.<P>My snoop software is not reporting now, so I am guessing the house is really packed up but he told me he cancled the packers, now did our stuff get loaded. <P>I don't know what is going on, <P>but the boys & I are living in 2 hotel rooms at the moment, OS starts summer school Mon, but will not be able to get both classes he needs. <P>Well, when I can I will check back in with the never ending saga of my messed up life.<P>I hope all of you all are doing well, I don't have time to read the threads. <P>Take care God Bless,

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<B>Sing</B>,<P>I'm glad to see the update. I'm keeping you in my prayers.<P>Do you have some friends here who are MB friendly and can support you, especially if you can't get online often? Maybe at your old church <B>or</B> maybe a new one where you aren't known, if you prefer.<P>Just seems like <B>a lot</B> to deal with alone.<P>Take care, we'll be here when you can be.<P>Steve

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Hi Sing,<BR>Welcome back. We missed you. Glad you made it safe, though it sounds like you had a harrowing trip. <P>Hey, the waffle iron is still plugged in over there. Leave him by for now and concentrate on your 2 sons. They are your life now. Your H will need to straighten himself out. I can fly over there in moments notice and bring my son's padded baseball bat. <P>Come and post when you can but know that we are all thinking of you and your family. <P>Take Care,<BR>L.

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Good to hear from you, <B>sing</B>,<P>I have missed you!!<P>Quite an interesting life you have going there, eh? [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] Yep, I lived with a waffler too... it sucks.<P>(((((sing)))))<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>And we know. We who have seen. ~Pellegrino


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