Go check out this message, and please weigh in on this.<P> <A HREF="http://theone.negril.com/cgi-bin/config.pl?read=148570" TARGET=_blank>http://theone.negril.com/cgi-bin/config.pl?read=148570</A> <P>My replies are under the screen name "Advisor".<P>Most of these folks don't have a clue, but I know you all do! Please help this guy out; it sounds like his marriage is in serious trouble, and these Negrilophiles (and I've been there, and it IS intoxicating -- but I go with my spouse!!), some of them, are giving him VERY BAD ADVICE.<P>Thank you all.