Speaking of Nothing Else Matters by Metallica...I used to play guitar, and I sang that one to my W just shortly after we started dating...Makes me cry now I even threw away that CD after I found out about her A.<P>The next one on my list would be The Dance by Garth Brooks.<P>James<p>[This message has been edited by JW (edited February 10, 2000).]

Yeah lyin eyes is good, but the song that's been stuck in my head has the line" "hopeless romantic here we go again." "But after awhile you're looking the other way." Bits and pieces of the song keep ringing in my ears, but I haven't been able to remember the whole chorus yet.

This is probably a no brainer but...<P>The song you danced your first dance to, as a married couple, at your wedding.<P>For me it is "Can't Help Falling In Love", by Elvis.<P>Or any song that the two of you considered to be *your song*.<P>Other than that the one that gets to me the worst is.... "You've Lost That Lovin Feeling" by the Rightous Brothers.<P>Now I'm going to go listen to Gloria Gaynor sing to me about how I don't need him any more. <P>Fingers Crossed<P>

Ohhhhh Yeahhhhh!! Just watched Top Gun the other night when that song came on. We're in recovery and I welled up. Husband and I sang it together.<P>There's a country music song I heard while at an amusement park this summer that actually had me balling right in front of his family. Wasn't a big country music fan before that point so don't know who originally sang it or what the title is, but it was very beautiful and heart wrenching all at the same time. it's a male vocalist.<P>Our first dance song at the wedding actually has to do with the trials and tribulations of marriage, and the absolute joy of "love's recovery". It is still a song of hope to me, but it has taken on new meaning.

I forgot to add Phil Collins - Seperate Lives.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

<BR>beth28,<P>The tune you're after is the Eagle's "New Kid in Town."<P>I hope this doesn't cause you to wince too much! Bystander (who's obviously an Eagles fan - yikes, am I showing my age!?!)<P>There's talk on the street, it sounds so familiar<BR>Great expectations, everybody's watching you<BR>People you meet they all seem to know you<BR>Even your old friends treat you like you're something new<BR>Johnny-come-lately, the new kid in town<BR>Everybody loves you, so don't let them down<P>You look in her eyes, the music begins to play<BR>Hopeless romantics, here we go again<BR>But after a while you're looking the other way<BR>It's those restless hearts that never mend<BR>Johnny-come-lately, the new kid in town<BR>Will she still love you when you're not around?<P>There's so many things you should have told her<BR>But night after night you're willing to hold her<BR>Just hold her tears on your shoulder<P>There's talk on the street, it's there to remind you<BR>That it doesn't really matter which side you're on<BR>You're walking away and they're talking behind you<BR>They will never forget you till somebody new comes along<P>Where you been lately? There's a new kid in town<BR>Everybody loves him, don't they? Now he's holding her<BR>And you're still around, oh my my<BR>There's a new kid in town<BR>Just another new kid in town<P>Oo-hoo, everybody's talking 'bout the new kid in town<BR>Oo-hoo, everybody's walking like the new kid in town<BR>THERE'S A NEW KID IN TOWN I don't want to hear it<BR>THERE'S A NEW KID IN TOWN I don't want to hear it<BR>THERE'S A NEW KID IN TOWN<BR>THERE'S A NEW KID IN TOWN<BR>THERE'S A NEW KID IN TOWN everybody's talking<BR>THERE'S A NEW KID IN TOWN people started walking<BR>THERE'S A NEW KID IN TOWN<BR>THERE'S A NEW KID IN TOWN

Ok what about "Torn between two lovers" - yeugh my most unfavourite song right now. My wedding song was "Three time a Lady" by the Commodores. I still remember with great happiness our wedding night. Still love my Husband!!

Beth, I'm sorry but heading the "songs to stay away from" list in my case is " any country music".<BR>You see, my H never really liked country and I was never a big fan, but used to enjoy some, until the ow enters the story and turns up country is her favorite music. <BR>I'm afraid I change stations or turn off the radio if I hear any, and it still triggers a bit of sadness and pain.<BR>During the affair my H started loving country and even bought a couple of cd's that I promptly threw in the garbage when things got better with us. As for him, he's back to his normal"I don't like country" , and I hope he stays that way <BR>Kat

A new one went through my head this morning. This one had me balling in a grocery store.<P>You must love me off of the Evita soundtrack.<P>

Well, here's one that made me cry in the months after I found out about my wife's affair. Most of you probably haven't heard of it but it's by Ted Hawkins.<P>Good and Bad<P>Living is good <BR>When you have someone to live with<BR>Laughter is bad <BR>When there is no one there to share it with<BR>Talking is bad<BR>If you've got no one to talk to<BR>Dying is good<BR>When the one you love grows tired of you<P>Sugar is no good<BR>Once it's cast among the white sand<BR>What's the point<BR>In pulling the gray hairs from among the black strands<BR>When you're old<BR>You shouldn't walk in the fast lane<BR>Oh ain't it useless<BR>To keep trying to draw true love from that man<P>He'll hurt you<BR>Yes just for the sake of hurting you<BR>And he'll hate you<BR>If you try to love him just the same<BR>He'll use you<BR>And everything you have to offer him<BR>On your way girl<BR>Get out and find you someone new

Don't remember the title or recognize the singer, but I keep hearing it over the loudspeakers in the local supermarket. A couple of the lines go something like: "Please don't leave me/ "I'll do anything to get you back." Drives me crazy.<P>Not this betrayed.<P>--Wex

When I first saw this post, I thought of some of the same..<P>Here are my two worst.<P>Right Here Waiting for You ..Richard Marx<P>Sometimes Love Just Aint Enough (I think this might be Heart, not sure which female group for sure though)<P>Both came on today and I just balled.<P>Why don't we just turn the song off as soon as it comes on>???

Iris by the googoo dolls<P>It was "their song".<P>"I'd give up forever to touch you<BR>'cause I know that you feel me somehow..."<P>I cringe when I hear that one

The one my ex-H played for me:<P>Break your heart by Barenaked Ladies:<P>The bravest thing I've ever done was to run away and hide.<BR>But not this time. Not this time.<BR>The weakest thing I've ever done<BR>was to stay right by your side. Just like this time, and every time.<BR>I couldn't tell you I was happy you were gone<BR>So I lied and said that I missed you when we were apart<BR>I couldn't tell you so, I had to lead you on.<BR>But I didn't mean to break your heart.<P>And if, if, if I always seem distracted<BR>Like my mind is somewhere else.<BR>That's because it's true.<BR>yes its true.<BR>Its this stupid pride that makes me feel<BR>like I have to follow through<BR>even half-assedly, loving you.<BR>Why must I always speak in tender kind of rhymes,<BR>when I guess I just should have come out and told you right from the start.<P>You say "what did you think I was gonna do, curl up and die just because of you? I'm not that weak you know. What did you think I was gonna do, try to make you love me as much as I love you? How could you be so wrong? You arrogant man. What do you think that I am? My heart will be fine. Just stop wasting my time."<P>And now I know that you will be ok, and that I've got what I want<BR>and that is rid of you.<BR>Good bye.<BR>And it is not cause I'll be missing you that makes me fall apart.<BR>It is just that I didn't mean to break your heart. No I didn't mean to break your heart.<BR>..........<P>Great guy, huh?<P>

These tore me apart when David and I were separated.<P>Your Wildest Dreams by the Moody Blues, and<BR>You Oughta Know by Alanis Morrisette<P><BR>

Hey Gang,<P>And now the metal head speaks out.<P>"In my Dreams" Dokken<P>"More than a Feeling" Boston<P>"Beth" Kiss<P>Any tune on the CD "Monster Ballads"<P>Danger, Danger Will Robinson!!!<P>Wishing us all the Best.<P>Tim

Of course our wedding song.....I was actually walking through K-mart and it came on. I was shopping for feminine protection at the time and I'm sure people womdered why I was standing there in tears. LOL. <P>Any GooGoo Dolls songs<BR>Part time lover by Stevie Wonder<BR>Eagles songs<BR>Corny, but some BackStreet Boys songs<BR>I knew I loved you before I met you----Savage Garden<P><BR>Okay, Okay....just about any song on the radio...either it reminds me of "us" or "them together"<P>YUK!!!!!<BR>Nancy<BR>

Heard a new one this weekend. "Unconditional" Can't remember the artist, but it's country. <P>Beth is a great song. *grin* "Angie" by the rolling stones is tear jerker quality too.<P>What an awful bare naked ladies song!

Another one to stay away from - my 'wedding' song<P>"You are the love of my life"<P>Sammy Kershaw<BR>

"Unconditional" is by Clay Davidson.<P>I would have put this on the list of songs that give me hope! Especially after seeing the video.<P>Peppermint