Ok, so I apologized for this morning. Then I said I was still upset about last night(his porno surfing)he said kinda under his breath ohh geez. I said I was dissapointed that he had to sneak and then lie about it. He said ok we're moving on from this and then hung up on me-before I could finish what I wanted to say. So I guess when it's an issue that he knows he did wrong by it's ok not to talk about it?? But yet when it's me ohhh nooo we have to go on forever about it. DOUBLE STANDARD HERE!!! Well, he can get his own da*n lunch today. I grow weary of these stupid mind games and he is the master of mind games-blech!!!! I am only doing what he asked-not keep things inside, talk about things and say what I feel. I couldn;t last night because I was on my way to my daughters softball game while he was waiting for a ride to help out a friend for med class(had to get pricked-hehe)then when he got home I was playing backgammon online. But he was all over me like white on rice when we went to bed-he knew I was upset and dissapointed-so he thought by lovey to me(just rubs people ) I would be over it. Ok I have said enough. Anyone have any clue on on why he is acting the way he is. He's just so smug about it and god forbid should we talk about his shortcomings.