This is my first time here, but I know Belldandy from a couple of years ago, another board. It was re-posted by a friend on this board what she wrote here.<P>I emailed to her at an old email address. I hope to hear back from her. My email is inOntario@hotmail.com, and if I get a response, I will send it out from there (with her permission).<P>I also am concerned by the tone of her post. Not characteristic of her norm. I feel that she was being influenced by her H, either by him looking over her shoulder OR by strictly frightening her terribly. Whatever the situation, it does NOT sound good at all.<P>Just out of curiosity, who is the (H) that she refers to (apparently her husband became upset when she read him the thread by (H) ). I'd be curious to read that thread.<P>I just read a couple of posts here. I belong to a very nice board, and this board too seems excellent. I'm so glad that there are places that those of us with this pain can find others to gain strength from. I'm sad that many do not "find" these places. I don't know how I'd have managed to have survived where I've been if not for my discussion board friends.<P>I'm glad that Belle has many friends here. I was concerned when Belle and her H got back together, for I sensed that it was not coming from the right place. Sadly I sensed correctly.<BR>

Simply put. Me <P>I'm [H] and Aeon Blue <P>Knewjie / LostNco / Dsn is my wife.<P>My posts are scattered throughout the message board. In may diffrent posts, many replies. The thread i think she showed him, where many of my posts are in is "Keep the faith"<P>------------------<BR>[H] / Aeon Blue<P>My advice is my advice. Take the good, disgard the bad. Do whats right for you. Not because I said it worked for me.<P>[This message has been edited by [H] (edited June 14, 2001).]<p>[This message has been edited by [H] (edited June 14, 2001).]

[H] is a fellow poster here- a poster child of the WS type if there can be such a thing. i know we all love to read his advice. Very sound stuff, probably why she showed her Husband.<P>Gosh, I was hoping maybe it was her coming in incognito answering me... I just am so worried.<P>

Janet,<P>When Bell refers to {H} it's actually my husband. His screen name is [H]. She had given him my husband's thread called "Keep the faith."<P>I just wanted to clarify that for you. Please let us know how she is if you know. My husband and I are very concerned for her.<P>K

I actually just found (H).... can't find the sq. brackets on my computer guys. I read a bit, and will read some more tomorrow. Very good reading. It's so nice to see a couple on here. Maybe my H will come here as well. I'll certainly tell him about this site.<P>I may not hear back from Belle till tomorrow, as I believe the email went to her place of employment.<P>Scary stuff.<P>Now tell me...what is a WS (I thought I knew all the lingo)....wayward spouse??? wicked stepmother???? my husband(his initials are WS believe it or not)??? <P>

Ws, "Wayward Spouse"<P>Poster child for "WS" I hardly think so. I just have a lot of love for everyone here, and a lot of things to say. I enjoy posting on here. It helps me to read other peoples stories, to learn other things.<P>I just enjoy sharing, and giving back is all. We all have good advice we give, great moments we share. Keep on sharing <P>------------------<BR>[H] / Aeon Blue<P>My advice is my advice. Take the good, disgard the bad. Do whats right for you. Not because I said it worked for me.