Hi, I could have been reading my story. My husband left me in Sydney to sell the house and finalise things whilst he started his new job in Melbourne, fell in love with someone at work and left me!!! All in the space of some 6 weeks. What a shock. I'm not where you are at the moment, I'm still sitting at home waiting for him to come (I think). This is highly unlikely since He's still in Melb and I moved to Brisbane to be closer to my family. But, I did do a stupid thing. He came to visit for the weekend and we ended up sleeping together - with the end result being that he gave me thrush, which he MUST have caught from her, he'd never had it before and neither had I. But, the stupid thing I did, was ring her tonight and thank her for the thrush that she gave us. (I suppose I wanted to let her know that he was still sleeping with me, and inflict a little bit of pain back.) Am I normal, or am I losing my mind and becoming one of those bitter and twisted 'exs' that everyone says should get a life ?? I really don't want to be one of those. I must admit to feelings of glee however, knowing that she's probably in bed imagining him with me, as I have done for so many nights!!!<BR>Please help with some words of wisdom to help me move on with my life before this completley envelopes me.<BR>Thanks