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I had my WS over for Father's Day supper today. It was a nice day but I feel so drained!<P>I am thinking I want to go to plan B now. I called my WS and told him I needed to talk to him tonight about us. He refused to come over. After reading the advice in recovery I really feel it's time to move on. My heart is breaking but I see no point in plan A any more. I will post my letter in here for you guys to read soon.<P>If anyone sees this as a big mistake for me please let me know!<BR>THANKS!
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Forgive me, but I just can't recall how long your Plan A has been.<P>Without even knowing length of your Plan A, I can't see it as a big mistake. If you've had some good times recently, which you have, and have done a good Plan A, then moving to Plan B may have a bigger impact than a situation where there is not much opportunity to meet any ENs.<P>Looks like there may be a bunch of us taking the plunge soon. Good luck writing the letter. It is good to have on hand even if you don't know if/when you'll use it.<P>
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Thanks for your responce Rick37. I have been in plan A for 4 months. I have worked very hard at it. I see no point in continuing it now.<P>I don't hold too much hope for us in plan B but I see it as our only hope now. I could never see my H coming to me to say he wants to try again. It's just not him. But I don't see him making any changes in plan A either.<P>I believe I will give him the letter sometime this week.<P>What about you?
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I've been reluctant to provide a specific date, because I haven't had a definite one, with several items needing to be cleared up before I start, but my vacation is in three weeks, and I want to do it before I leave. I'll have the kids for about 12 days straight then, and I figure it is optimum timing. My wife can get a taste of the new life that she chose.
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