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#2909083 06/20/01 11:01 AM
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Married for 9 years with 3 kids. Just found out for the second time that there's an email from another worman on my husbands email. I confronted him on the first one and he said it was probably for someone else not for him and the sender made a mistake on the email address, and I really believed him. That was about 2 weeks ago.<P>Now this morning I saw another email from the same person saying to him why she hasn't heard from him lately and is he mad at her. Well, our access to the internet at home is not working so I'm thinking hmmm is that why she hasn't heard from him.<P>Basically just wanted to know what I should do. I don't want to tell him about this because If there's anything between him and this OW I don't think he will tell me anyway. <P>By the way he used ask me to check his email address from time to time when we have problem with our computer at home so that's why I know his email password. I check his email from time to time jsut to be sure that there was nothing to worry about.<P>I have been reading this site for about 2 years. 1st time I'm posting though.<P>Anythoughts? I would appreciate.

#2909084 06/20/01 11:18 AM
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I would ask him - without any anger, any suspicion in your voice - just ask him, or rather let him know this mystery woman emailed him "in error" again. If he gives you the same answer, then offer to send her a reply telling this woman that she has made a mistake on her email address and please stop sending emails to your H's address!

#2909085 06/20/01 11:33 AM
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Sounds potentially innocent enough to me. <P>In my opinion, it is not a betrayal to have a friendship over the internet, even with the opposite sex ... though he should be open & honest about it. <P>But, keep your antenae up. Don't let on that you may suspect something. Stay watchful for clues ... but, be cautious about jumping to conclusions too soon. <P>Good luck.

#2909086 06/20/01 11:47 AM
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I would not confront at this time. Wait for more evidence. If you want to be tricky and really think something is going on then send email to this woman and pretend it is from your husband.

#2909087 06/20/01 11:55 AM
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I certainly wasn't intending for anything to be confrontational. Just simple innocent questions!<BR>Another option is to go ahead and reply to this woman saying she has the wrong address and stop sending email here.After all, your husband told you it must be someone sending him email in error -right?


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