No contact is getting a lot easier. MM still calls but at least it is showing up with his work number on the caller ID again. He called yesterday. I went to go see my cop friend yesterday. A few days ago I finally decided to just ask him if he and his XOW/baby momma were still together. I felt like things had changed and that he suddenly had more time for ME and he wasn't talking about her at all anymore.<BR>He told me that hey were not together because she was accusing him of stuff he wasn't doing and that's one thing he can't stand. She thinks that because he goes to his old house (that he still pays the mortgage on as a form of child support for his kids and so they wouldn't have to move from the house that they were growing up in) and sees his kids when he is on patrol, that he's seeing his exwife still and she *****ed about that. I said, "Now isn't THAT ironic?!" He said, " how so?" I said, " Well, you cheated on your wife with her and to her, that was ok, but now that she thinks you're cheating on her with your wife, she's pissed? THAT'S ironic." He said that he's not seeing his exwife in that manner. He said he didn't understand how she could think that he could patrol around the town of Wallace and if he saw his kids outside playing he wouldn't stop and play with them or speak to them. i said she is probably thinking that you should be spending that time with her and her child and is jealous of your relationship with your other kids. He said, " But I LIVED with them! they grew up with me. It's not that I don't love [OC] but she's never lived with me. It's just different. Anywayz, my mom's birthday is today but she's having a party on Saturday and he's coming to the party with me and then we are going to the movies and who knows what else. I know what I've done is going to come back on me, but I hope this lasts for a while at least. I wouldn't have given him a wholehearted chance if I was still pining over MM.
