Hi!!!<P>Just checking in - Hmmmm...lets see.... I feel solid this morning too - Puhhhh. It’s almost scary to wake up in the mornings not knowing how you will feel! So I come here at once so that I won’t get crazy ideas in my head.<P>Paintbox *LOL* -You and your Karate-kicks!!!!!. Just reading your posts keeps me on the ”carpet” so to say. I wouldn’t want to get kicked by your firm foot .<P>The more I read here the more I want to help - but I’m in no such position right now. Perhaps one day?<P>Chris - You can tell me ” I told you so” - anytime - I know when I’m wrong - even though I hate to admit it!<P>Now I’m going to make breakfast and see what the day has to offer!<P>Thanks again for ”holding me up” - you really do help me more then you know!<P>Cheers<BR>HF<P>

Good to see you feeling well and happy!!! So the party went well, it's a good weekend. I'm smiling here thinking of your progress. <P>You know, I've found that the best way to heal is to give. I credit this website with my continued healing over my H's affairs. Sometimes all a person needs is a ((((hug)))) or letting them know you're listening to them.<P>Have a wonderful Sunday.<P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare

HumbleFish:<P>Hang in there...keep doing the right thing. I give you credit, I really do. <P>I have been BS for over 11 months now. I just went to court last week. WH showed up with OW and his children. How disrespectful to flaunt his adulteress girlfriend openly before me and the court, much less drag the children into this. OW put on a circus performance like a fool, laughing and making snide loud comments. I know this was suppose to be for my benefit. All she proved to me was her vast ignorance. It only confirmed her stupidity. They thought they had a plan, a big funny game, to get at me. Well, the Judge saw through it and slammed him, told him he was NOT entitled to ANYTHING. I'm sure the Judge interpreted their actions and appearance as inappropriate and detestable.<BR>Funny, they weren't laughing on the way out.<P>Don't lower yourself. Keep in mind you are better than this. Lead with your mind, your conscience...not your heart and your emotions. Do what's BEST for YOU and your children. You can do it. Now I'm trying to stand up for myself...you can do to. I'm glad your NOT like my H's OW, this is a BIG positive advantage in your favor. <P>So throw out the crazy ideas. Know you are a help...in knowing that people make mistakes, but can still have some integrity. <P>DO THE RIGHT THING. <P><B>For knowledge comes from living and trying something new <BR>But wisdom comes from learning from all that you've been through</B><BR><p>[This message has been edited by Hurtwife (edited June 24, 2001).]