Well...back again....<BR>Just had the child care lady call and kick my kids out of her child care, they were there only 1 night!<BR>Michael had a nightmare due to being in a strange place, but he scared one of the other kids so badly that his mother demanded my kids go or else she'd pull her kid.<BR>Oh well, I couldn't get ahold of anyone being as it's Sunday and I have to work tonight. My one friend agreed to do it since it was an emergency tonight.<BR>At first my husband was yelling at me that he wouldn't quit his job over this, I told him I could drop to part time at night then he could watch them. But he refused that idea, although he does spend the nights here Tues and Wed to watch them??<BR>It's not like I would be here during those hrs??<BR>Well, at least he found someone to watch them across the street from his parents' house. But this is a major trust issue with me, I don't know those people. Although his family trusts them, my daughter is really leary of going over there.<BR>At this point I'm about ready to tell everyone taht he's out of the house. He has me telling welfare that he's still here! Then denies that he told me to do that???<BR>If I tell them he's gone I can get help with childcare, switch to afternoons and impose no contact with him. But I run the risk of him pulling his pay from us here, as of now he's still giving us all of his money???<BR>I don't know what to do anymore, is it time to put my foot down? He uses me to get to work, acts normal as long as I don't bring up where he's living or what he's done, but as soon as I ask how he is...BOOM...he loses it, the I'm confused lines and blaming me for stuff that was not my fault??<BR>Is it time for Plan B??<BR>Need advice, this has been going on tooooo long and my kids are being affected too much for this to go on much longer.
