I am starting to wonder if it is time for Plan B. My W told me a couple of weeks ago that she was CONSIDERING reconciling. However, she is still communicating with OM 4 to 5 times a day. She said that she knows that in order to commit to this marriage that she has to give up that communication, but she doesn't want to yet. She says she doesn't really know what she wants. <P>We are at a point where we occassionally do things together and actually have fun doing it. However, it seems like every time the OM calls right in the middle. <P>My W told me last night that she thinks she married me because of a rebound from her first marriage and questions her love for me based on that. This after 13 years and 3 kids.<P>Now I am starting to wonder if a Plan B will help both me and my W. Me, in that this is starting to really tear me up. And her, in that right now she has the best of everything, me and OM.<P>Please give me feedback. Let me know if you need additional details.<P>S&C<P>