My W is WS and D-day was 6 months ago. <BR>I forgave everything, I don't keep any anger, we identified some problems that we were having and we are doing much better now.<BR>I am having a really hard time dealing with one particular problem. I was always appreciating my wife and I was always looking at her and feeling how lucky I am to be with her and so on. (of course , one of our problems was that I didn't show my emotions to her and I am fixing it now, but it is irrelevant to this problem, I think).<BR>Right now, and it happens pretty often, the more buitiful she looks, the more painful it becomes for me. I can't identify exactly why, but obviously the big reason is that she gave her heart to someone else. This problem is becoming pretty obsessive and sometimes I want to see her as ugly or not to see her at all just so I don't feel pain.<BR>Any ideas if it is a common problem? does it dissapear with time?<BR>thanksin advance for any help.