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I plan A'd my self to death over the past 6 months. H and I were doing all kinds of fun things together. He told me only a month ago that I was a completely different person, and that if someone had told him a year ago all the fun stuff we'd be doing together, he wouldn't have believed it. He told several of our friends that he no longer felt that I was controlling him, and that he was so happy that I had forgiven him and given him another chance. Now he is gone again, and he is seeing the OW (even though he denies it). How could I have avoided ending up like this? She doesn't love him, but insists on playing this sick game.
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How do you know he's seeing her?
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1) My H hates to be alone, and never leaves unless she's out there waiting.<BR>2) He called her from his mom's house, the night he moved out.<BR>3) The night he told me he was leaving again, she was seen leaving a parking lot of a motel around 7:30 P.M. I had been trying to reach H on his cell phone from 6:00 to 7:30 with no answer. He returned my call at 8:00 and said he was headed home and was just leaving that town. She and us both live in a different town from where my H works. She also works in that town (not at the same place as H anymore), but she gets off work at 3:30. My husband says he worked late, then went to the gym. However, I found out that he left work early that day.
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Also, the night he told me he was leaving, he said that I was such a strong person and he was so weak. He said he was afraid he was going to "mess up again." He told our teenager that he was going to start dating again right away. When asked if he was going to date this OW, he said, "the only way I would date her again is if she left her husband." He might as well have admitted it.
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