This is a topic which gets discussed from time to time, along with similar tactics like phone recorders. I'm not saying don't use them, but be cautious about how you use the information and who you tell.<P>See this <A HREF="http://www.msnbc.com/news/624838.asp?0dm=C13NT" TARGET=_blank>story</A> on MSNBC regarding possible legal jeopardy.<P>Steve

Thanks Steve

After reading the article, I think that one of the important points is that he was not living with his wife. It sounds like he snuck into her house and installed the monitoring software on her computer so that it would email the reports to him. <P>I think it would be looked at quite a bit differently if the couple was living together and they shared the computer. After reading the article, I think that one of the important points is that he was not living with his wife. It sounds like he snuck into her house and installed the monitoring software on her computer so that it would email the reports to him. <P>I think it would be looked at quite a bit differently if the couple was living together and they shared the computer. <P>This is a touchy issue. SeenTheLight and I handle this by openly monitoring all of our computers. We all know that the software is installed. Even though he is the one who had the affairs via the Internet, I believe that it as part of the rules of honesty, protection and care, I too need to live under the same lack of privacy he now does. <P>It’s part of our commitment to each other.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by zorweb (edited September 06, 2001).]