Hola Bad Hubby!<P>How's the reading coming? What day are we at with "NO CONTACT" w/OW?<P>Lv,<BR>Jo

Hi freinds, I've been having trouble getting back here lately, both in spirit and technically. The site has been hard to get into lately, and I will admit that my own weeknesses have been an obstacle. <BR>Reading is going well. I am currently into His Needs, Her Needs. The desire is there, but I am truly weak. Work has taken precedence with my time, but aside from that, OW has too. I cannot yet shed the name of Bad Hubby.<P>

Hi Jo, <P>I have read a bit up on HB tonight. I am a bit worried about him. Is that a chance someone out there knows how to get ahold of Cheryl? Her and SKM really did some good posts out there before, that might benefit HB. <P>I am worried because the kind of help, I believe HB needs are by those who have been there but actually made it back. Some of the WSs (not all just some) are various stages and may not be in a strong enough position to help HB. Again this is my opinion but I remember when Cheryl used to post, she did it in a well presented manner. SKM also, they both spoke to the mind and heart. They did not beat around the bush nor defend themselves. They did provide insight without encouraging or defending the A. <P>Again this is my opinion. I know WAT can get ahold of SKM, maybe someone else can pass a message to Cheryl.<P>JMHO,<BR>L.

Badhubby, the good news is that you are reading and thinking and reading. The good news is that you are back here and will get the best coaching ever; and your thinking. The good news is that your being honest-here and with yourself; and your thinking.<BR>Stay here and your growth will astound you! your thinking<BR>Welcome back.<BR>The mother of an OW such as yours.<P>------------------<BR>Marry

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BadHubby --<BR>We can talk anytime you want.....

Thanks all. I'll make time to post this weekend. W is coming over tonight, time to put my SAA education to the test.<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Bad Hubby (edited September 21, 2001).]

Holy s**t, that didn't go well...<P><BR>

I'm only here for a minute or two.. plus it's the weekend... but please share with us... we're here to listen....

Thanks Faith,<P><BR><p>[This message has been edited by Bad Hubby (edited September 22, 2001).]

who needs to drink the cocktails... you or me? LOL<P>I'm so glad you are here reading and posting. <P>I'm so sorry you had a bad night. Unfortunately, I can relate from W's side all too well. I LB'd big time as d-day was approaching for me (I'm the BS). I had no idea how to control my anger and frustration. I know that is he!! on you, as it was for my H. By the time D-day came, I had found this place, and handled the confession quite well. I hope and pray your W can reach that point somehow. <P>This probably doesn't help much. But we are here to listen - sooooo..... ok, ok, have your cocktails, and tell us about it. I'm sure some real help will be here shortly... but just know we're here and we care.