Allergies have been attacking him for the past two weeks so needless to say, our sex life has been minimal, maybe twice within the past two weeks.. This bothers me a bit, becuz if there is one thing I can say throughout our marriage we have always had satisfying and frequent sex and it's the one things I take pride and comfort in when all else seems to fail. <P>I've tried to be understanding and haven't really mentioned it much except Sat when I really blew it, i guess.. His friend (this is a friend who i don't quite agree with, he's single, and I have seen him with numerous women, and I believe my H should surround himself with christian married men) anyways, his friend came over and they talked outside, and about 30 min later he walks in and says he is going to hang out with his friend and ride around awhile.. It's about 8 pm, My son and i have been stuck in the house all day becuz he says he's been too sick to do anything, well now he wants to go out.. he takes a shower and leaves. comes home about 2 hours later. <P>I guess I've been kind of resentful of that becuz last night he says when he came to bed ( i was already asleep) that he tried to be intimate with me and I threw his hand away.. I have never done this and I feel so bad.. When I woke up, I asked him if i was dreaming of did this really happen.. and if it really did take place I was sorry.. I honestly thought it was a dream, maybe it was an unconcious thing.. i don't know<P>He of course, went on and on about me being with someone else and someone else is probably touching me.. etc... <BR>My problem is that, when he comes home, he is hardly ever affectionate and the only time he wants to be is when I am already in a deep sleep, and I hate when someone interrupts me when I sleep.. <P>Am I wrong? He hasn't called all day and I'm really worried.. We usually get over things pretty quick, but I can already tell i'm in for a long night of the silent treatment<P>Someone please tell me how to make this right? and how do i get him from always thinking that there is somebody else???
