I jus t talked to W on the phone. I told her I needed some boxes caus I hvae to move from my apt. Financial problem. She is in a hole so I help her instead of me. I hate to see her go down.<P>The conversation was good. We talked about were I thought was going. I really havent a clue, Maybe back to moms. We talked about going chrustmas shopping together. this is good and bad. she knows I want to be with her. She knows I'll spend the money. She dont have it. She also asked me if I would go over to her house and watch the kids on sun/ while her and some girlfrieln go to the movies. I sure hope I'm not watching the kids so she can go with OM. I also asked about tomorrow night I always go over there on thrus. to watch wrestling with her and my oldesy son. I said I didn't know what she thought about that since our conversation last night. SHe said you know you are always welcome to come here and see the kids. she always throws that in there. She told me to stop panicing.<P>I dont want to do PlanB I enjoy treating her like a queen. It makes me feel good. I just hope she sees it in time<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>

Then don't go to plan b. Plan B is for when you feel your love for the spouse slipping away. Plan B is for your healing in that case. It doesn't sound like that is the case with you.

brownphdt,<P>It doesn't sound like you're at the stage where you need to go into a Plan B.<P>Plan A... with no love busting is best... but are you communicating with <B>honesty</B> with her... I hope you not just being a door mat...<P>You need to be discussing her needs... and trying to fill them... and discussing your needs and how she could fill them too! Counseling if it is possible($$) is a good direction to follow...<P>What is happening with W's pregnancy?... and the OM's involvement?... did I miss something important?... (I may have been a little too busy and not keeping up on your posts)... Fill me in.<P>Jim

Thanks I do kinda feel the ove slip and then I dont. SHe iss seeing some one new though. Love slips. We talk about christmas shopping. I dont feel this. Confusion<P>NRS reAD just recieved the worse new any one could get. I have to go take my son to the doctor. She called and asked if i would she cant get away from work. be back later.<BR><P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>