well, i envy those who still have a sex life. i dont.<P>the day i told my H he couldnt get enough of me, but over the last two yrs, we are down to sex aobut once a month and only because it is a desprete thing.<P>and it is totally me. i seem to have qute the hang up when it comes to sex with my H. everything else seems to be falling somewhat in order, but the sex part doesnt. he doesnt turn me on, what so ever. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] it is a sad sad thing. i used to resort to many many things to help heighten the sexuality, nothing works. <P>sick sick sick... ih ate it.....oh well...i should have been a nun.<P>mercy