Regarding Phone cards and online records - I have been married for 30 years and am only 53. My husband is 58 and this year I have gone through all that you all have gone through. I only hope his and her calls have stopped, I believe they no longer see each other. They met on the internet playing Yahoo Euchre and had a real scam with me going for a year. I've lived a nightmare and gone to counseling. Anyway, in this forum several months ago I found that there is a phone card that can be traced and can be purchased at <A HREF="http://bigzoo.com/main.asp" TARGET=_blank>http://bigzoo.com/main.asp</A> <BR>You can always plant them where they can be picked up around the house. I also use a device at home that I purchased from Radio Shack along with a tape recorder that picks up all activity on the line. I take one day at a time. Hopefully there won't be another contact, cause it will be his last, and my children have vowed no more either.<BR>