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I need some input from you cyber-wizards out there. I have heard many people speak of computer monitoring software to support radical honesty between spouses. I believe my WS will be open to this as we are working hard at rebuilding trust. We have one computer at home and he has a lap top. Any suggestions are appreciated.

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Hi, <P>I am no wizard of any kind but I remember Zorweb and STL talking about OPUS. Try searching for that in the contents part, you may find additional info and references to other monitoring software applications. <P>L.

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This is all you'll ever need. I've used it on my job and it's a great program:<BR> <A HREF="http://www.spectorsoft.com" TARGET=_blank>http://www.spectorsoft.com</A> <P>

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We use the one sold at <A HREF="http://www.iopus.com." TARGET=_blank>www.iopus.com.</A> <P>Z

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I used Online Recorder. Worked great, but bogged down the computer so bad, she ended up finding it.<P>I'd rather work on radical honesty, and build real trust, so we got rid of it. If she's still talking to the OM, that's her loss if I find out, and she knows it.

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Spectorsoft does not appear to work with WINDOWS ME.<P> jd

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Thanks to all of you for these suggestions. <BR>

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I use winwhatwhere which, ironically, can be found at <A HREF="http://www.winwhatwhere.com" TARGET=_blank>www.winwhatwhere.com</A> <BR>I think it's $99.00. It works on windows and I think mac os also (not sure). It doesn't bog the system. It's completely invisible to those who don't know its there. It's very user friendly. And it records EVERY keystroke made on the computer and every site the person visits. I love it.<P>going with the idea of radical honestly, WH is well aware that the software is there. <BR>LLL

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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by loveslabourslost:<BR><B><BR>I think it's $99.00. It works on windows and I think mac os also (not sure). It doesn't bog the system. It's completely invisible to those who don't know its there. It's very user friendly. And it records EVERY keystroke made on the computer and every site the person visits. I love it.<P></B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>That's quite a bit more than the Starr software that I have @ $50, however, my program does not record both sides of AOL or MSN chats. [even though it claims to!] Does yours record both sides of a conversation?<P>


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