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I couldnt stand it anylonger, I has to go to plan B . And you know what I feel better than I have felt since D day. But I dont understan her reaction . 3 days after I delivered letter ws was over and we talked and I explained that i wont be here we she comes over to see the kids . She looked at me funny like, I said that was in the letter .She said what letter . After I explained what letter she said o ya was that in there? She calls me every day now with nice coversation and in the letter I said no contact what is she trying to prove? Is it possible she is trying to see how far I will let her go before I slam the door shut? Anybody got any advise?
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CB,<P>Nobody really knows what she is thinking but it might be a wake-up call for her and she might be testing your sincerity of plan B. <P>I just started plan B myself and she thinks it is a joke but I have got news for her. I MEAN IT!!!!!!!<P>Good luck my friend!<P><BR>Roughneck
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Hi, Colfax! I think that she won't feel the full experience of living without you (one of the things that's supposed to happen in Plan B) if you don't make it clear that there is to be no contact. If she decides to move back in and work on the marriage, then that's another story.<P>Rose Red
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Thanks Roughneck, Rose Red,<BR>The letter was clear enough about no contact . She might not believ that I would go thru with it , Mabe shes just laughing at me thinking I am weak. The letter also said that we had to set it up for the kids to live at her apt. and this saturday will be 2 weeks since she got the letter and no attempt to set up a schedual. Its interesting I am trying to figure this out.<BR>But buy doing that I place alot of stress on myself . Stress that I do not need .
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