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Married 9 months when the affair happened!
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Together 6 yrs since July.<BR>Married 4 yrs since June.<P>I'm 28, H is 27.<P>(I'm feeling a tad bit out of place here... [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] )<P>Karen
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Well married 6 yrs this month, together 7 yrs. Been split up 4 times. Got a 5 and 6 yr old sons.
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We have been together 18 years.<BR>Married 9 1/2 years.
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OKAY<BR> once again I say whats wrong with me????????<BR>Am I the "youngest marriage" here?<BR>married 4 years<BR>together 7 years<BR> IS THIS A BAD SIGN?????????????????? <BR>I feel stupid giving advice to people married 17 years or so. I thought you should have it down by then!!!!!!<P>This is going to make me have nightmares.
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together since we were 17, married at 19. Together a total of 17 years....our 15th anniv. was Aug 1 and he came home the next week after I knew about ow for 9 months. What a "fun" aniiversary- I was supposed to get a huge anniversary band on our 15th but now we're paying off a jewelry bill from OW.. just great
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We have been together 8 years on June 2 and Married 5 years June 1...cool huh.<P>3 As happened in June only a year into being married, the 4th happened about 6 months later in January
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Together 28 years this past May<P>Married 25 years this coming Tuesday<P>D-Day -- April 2001 yet I "knew" instinctively about the affair for a long, long time. Too long [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] <P>Future -- I have a lot of hope and things do look bright. Time will tell!<p>[ October 14, 2001: Message edited by: GeezLouise ]
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together 16yrs.<BR>married 12 (anniv. was in Sept.)<BR>d-day was 3/01<BR>currently still separated
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together: 16 years<BR>married: 15 years<BR>D-Day May 27, 2001<BR>H has been involved with OW since April 2000...Still going on......<BR>H stills lives at home but could move out as soon as this weekend......
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Somewhat new to posting on this board, although have been lurking for several months now.<P>Started dating husband at 16.<BR>Together 19 years.<BR>Married almost 17.<BR>3 children.
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Married 35 years (since college days)<P>2 adult children; our son is currently BS; separated from DIL who still talks with OM. Their stats: together 8 years, married 5, d-day June 2001
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Married 12 1/2 years<BR>Together 13 years<BR>D-Day June 1, 1999<BR>Affair lasted almost 2 full years<P>I am the BS-we have remained together and plan to for eternity. One<B>HUGE</B> mistake H made-but will spend the rest of his life trying to help me heal.
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Being together for 15yrs<BR>Married for 10yrs
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Married for 15 years. WH actually choose the day of our 15 yr. Anniversary to start his PA! SICK!!<P>Dated for 1 year prior to marriage.
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We had only been together 4 years, married a year and a half at the time of the A! I have learned since then through my reading that 4 years is a critical time for relationships. Evidently it's more the "4 year itch" than the 7 year everyone always talks about. Oh well, hopefully we got it all out of the way early on.
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married 13 yrs.<BR>together 14.5 yrs.<BR>d-day 05/07/01<BR>wife moved out 09/27/01<BR>I'm praying for reconciliation ---- now!!!
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Together 22 years, Married 20 years next March. She was 17 I was 19. D-day was 27 Aug 01.
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