ok i have posted previously here's an update h has been back 4 wks (works w/ow)i believe they are still seeing one another.h works late hrs and i believe she stays there w/him he claims they are through.she has no idea he is living w me and our child thinks he's with his aunt.i have seen stains on underpants denies they were together.pretty much spends time with me on the wkend.during the wk gets in late.trying to plan a w/o looking like a fool.he is nice on the wkends but i feel he is up to something we are currently working on being friends and if that fails we will divorce.he is also always checking his cell phone and seeing if he has messages.i want to work this out but part of me says no what should i do i try not to bring her up all the time but some days are really hard so i just watch and play on that?i told him if he wants her than go be with her but i want to be totally left alone.pls supply any and all advice i feel like i really need a friend and don't want to keep talking about this w/family members also he is avoiding his family b/c he feels they were too involved and he is not speaking to them (which is wrong b/c they do a lot for our child) and he says he may never speak to them.if he is so cold towards his family what really can i expect from him for myself and our child.he says he's cold hearted but only to the wrong people.meanwhile he won't confess to ow that he is home with us

Tell her.