It's been awhile sense I've posted but wanted to get some thoughts on this. Sense I last posted things have gotten better then worse then better again. W still is not willing to give up her A.We are now arriving at what I see as a majior crossroads, I have been offered a new job on the oposite coast of where we are now. It is at a place the W and I have always dreamed of going. She has yet to decide wheather she is willing to move or not. She has tried to convence me that we could move then when OM gets a transfer to the same coast that her and our kids will move to where he is. I've said no way, that I would never do that to the kids. Well then she gave up on that and said she would move and not get divorced and she would give up OM. Then it has changed again to we move and OM tries to tranfer to the same place. Now it's to she's not sure. I think if we leave that OM will not follow and it would put an end to all this in short order. I was just wondering what everyone thinks about making such a move. I don't see how this move could make things any worse but I see how it could in time make things much better. Any opions and thought are welcome.<p>Thanks
Silwl

I tend to agree, if W is willing to relocate, GO!<p>Sure, she's going to suffer from withdrawl BIG TIME, but at least that would put a major crimp in the A style.<p>Good luck,
Kev

Kevco, thanks for the reply. That's along the same lines I'm thinking. I figure wosrt case he follows and we go with a divorce but my kids will still be close by. Best case she goes through withdraw and starts to think clearly again.<p>Thanks
silwl

I think it is a good idea to move. If she goes along it's even better. Keep the Faith.<p> jd