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I just need to vent a little and see if I can talk myself out of my gut instinct.<p>I have a hockey game to go to tonight. Obviously, WS isn't going and so I asked a friend. So happens that the last game, WS was there. It was a couple of days after D-Day, and she'd already agreed to END the A....but she lied and I caught her calling the OM from the game and then later emailing his cell to try to meet.....<p>Having some apprehension about going to the game. Would much rather hop on the motorcycle that she doesn't know that I've been riding and go park outside his house just to see if they show up.................<p>I know that in itself is wrong and violates Plan A, not to mention the MAJOR LB if I got caught. But I have a sinking feeling... (like the Titanic). I'm probably just having angst because of the experience at the last game, but my gut instincts have really NEVER been wrong in this (even though I ingored them for a couple of months and attributed it paranoia related to depression).<p> Hang on for the ride, I guess.<p>Kev
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Kev,
Even you find out what are you going to do about it ?. She makes that choice for tonight, let it be. Hit that hockey hard and vent it there ... let 'em have it. Is it ice or inline or roller ?.
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College Ice hockey.<p>Univ of Nebraska @ Omaha plays Michigan State.<p>I know you're right, and I wouldn't do anything about it but obsess if they WERE together (and probably mark it on my calendar), but it's just the not knowing.<p>Da^n this is hard!<p>kev
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kev,
Mine does the same too. Unless you are ready to hand her your plan B letter don't do it. Just marked it as probable in your calendar. Have fun tonite. [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img] Let us know what is the score ...
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Great game, UNO won 4-3 with two goals in the third....I have an extra ticket for tomorrow!<p>I didn't go check, but I did go over it quite a bit in the lulls of the game. I know I can't do anything about it, but that would at least be a barometer as to what's going on in WS' head. I can only imagine....focus on ME (sounds so easy).<p>Kev
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