Hi Sally,<p>Just read through your posts. I am so sorry. Wish I could offer some good advice. The only thing I know is to try and take care of yourself and the kids. <p>There really isn't much you can do about your husband's choices--just keep plan Aing as long as possible.<p>There is always hope--and I will be praying for you and your kids.<p>Maybe next year we will both have a happier ending!! Take Care Pat