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Refuses to see the truth
#2928592 11/08/01 09:49 PM
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Has anyone here ever encountered someone who seem to WANT to believe H/W is having an affair? No proof, just accusations time and time again...
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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Lydia StJ:
<strong>Has anyone here ever encountered someone who seem to WANT to believe H/W is having an affair? No proof, just accusations time and time again...</strong><hr></blockquote><p>
I have never met anyone who WANTED to believe thier spouse was having an affair, but several who DIDN'T WANT to believe such a thing. However, I have met folks who had a very strong GUT feeling along with circumstantial evidence that turned out to signal an affair. Why do you ask?
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#2928594 11/08/01 11:57 PM
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My Wife accused me of having an affair several times during the 1st couple months of her PA. She had no basis, timeframes, proof or indicators to substantiate her accusations. Although I asked her to look through anything of mine, schedule a lie detector test for me or call anyone I knew, the facts or truth were not what she was looking for. At the time I was not aware of her PA, so it all seemed very very strange to me. I now believe she was seeking to comfort herself from the guilt that had started to build in her by believing I had already done her wrong.
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#2928595 11/09/01 01:37 AM
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Hmmmm..for some reason the line "the best defense is a good offense" comes to mind. Have heard of those having the A accusing spouses. Bunch of hooey.
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#2928596 11/09/01 03:09 AM
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Twila- that's what I was thinking. See message under "phone call from an idiot" for details...

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