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My wife has claimed that she no longer sees the OP on a regular basis. Does anybody know of a good website or service that will maybe charge a one-time fee to seek information on people? I've done a search on these services and they all seem pretty expensive. I just need to find out one address. This OP has moved twice in the past year and I don't know where she lives right now.<p>I feel a little ashamed even investigating this, but I seem to remember that Dr. Harley stated somewhere that he was all for checking up on the WS.

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Always Hopeful:
<strong>My wife has claimed that she no longer sees the OP on a regular basis. Does anybody know of a good website or service that will maybe charge a one-time fee to seek information on people? I've done a search on these services and they all seem pretty expensive. I just need to find out one address. This OP has moved twice in the past year and I don't know where she lives right now.<p>I feel a little ashamed even investigating this, but I seem to remember that Dr. Harley stated somewhere that he was all for checking up on the WS.</strong><hr></blockquote><p>www.ussearch.com they have special 30 hours unlimited search for $44.00+ if you fill in the questionair. (expired 11/16) I use it before to find OM. I told her few weeks later that I did it since she started to lied. I snoop/sleuth too. She knows it and hates it but I told her "I need to know". It might be an LB (annoying behavior) but I talk fogese back to my WW. At this point my sanity counts too.<p>However watch out what you find out and if you could handle it ... if you can't stay away from it, what you find will eats up in no time you LB$$ for WS. See Kevco- post on following OM.

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I take it you already tried calling information [1411]and asking them for the address?

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or if you have a phone # you can do a reverse look up and it might give you the address:<p>http://www.anywho.com/

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Thanks, but that seems very pricey.<p>Plus, I only want to find out one address. I have no use for the service after that.<p>I was hoping that there might be either a free public service or one that charges a small one use lookup fee.

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Always Hopeful:
<strong>My wife has claimed that she no longer sees the OP on a regular basis.</strong><hr></blockquote><p>Versus an "irregular" basis?

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ML-<p>Thanks! The website you listed actually worked!

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Hi, <p>Well I used usserch and it checked on crimminal history as well as addresses and at that time even some financial info. Scary as that sounds, I was able to find out when OW was lying or telling the truth. In my case and due to the WS's actions at the time, there was reason to suspect drugs. Little did I know at that time how much an A acts like a drug. Investigation into other illegal activity may still be going on. It is not in my hands and should not be. However, the research did prove somewhat helpful in my case. <p>It did cost a pretty penny but for now it was worth it. <p>L.


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