Well, let's see...<p>If you'll recall, OM lives in Vegas, and was in the process of divorcing his W. By all accounts, his STBX was a coked-up gambling addict who was as evil as they come! Eventually, my XW hoped to move up there when the smoke had cleared from his divorce. <p>A few months after our D, things weren't looking so good for them. The fog was slowly starting to clear, I think. Then, out of the blue, my XW got a call from OM's W!<p>They had a nice, long chat, to say the least! It turns out that she wasn't the ogre that he had made her out to be...in fact, they had been
sleeping together for the past 9 months! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Needless to say, she dropped him faster than a live grenade!<p>The Fog cleared for a few weeks, and then she met another "perfect" guy. She immediately began to cling to him. Yet he's a twice-betrayed guy who travels a lot for his business. He wanted nothing to do with a relationship, and so it fizzled about a month ago.<p>The OM had been calling the whole time, sometimes several times a day. Apparently he hadn't gotten the hint that she didn't want to see him anymore. I don't think it's reached the level of stalking, but he certainly has become annoying. She finally told him "don't call me, I'll call you." <p>What has she learned? That's tough to say. I know she feels a lot of remorse over how things turned out for us, but she probably thinks there is no turning back at this point. I have to say I'd agree with her.
