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#2932526 11/29/01 11:06 PM
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So after what seems like a really bad day / night yesterday, my WW finally got in to see her C this morning for the first time in 2 weeks. (That'll teach her for taking a week off!! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] )<p>So this evening, WW sends me an e-mail:<p>-----------------
I had a crappy session with (C) today. I was feeling cranky to begin with, as you are well aware. And I left feeling even more frustrated.
She really focussed in on how great you are, how remarkable you are to put up with me, how I couldn't find a better man etc. Which is true. But it made me feel like crap, because it just emphasized what a jerk I am, and made me feel super guilty and horrible. Plus she told me I would regret leaving etc. I just didn't want to deal with any of this today. <p>Anyway, I'm staying in (city where she works) tonight. I can't deal with anything right
now. I just want to focus on getting through my meeting tomorrow. I'm feeling totally over-whelmed. <p>I hope you are not too disapointed.
-----------------<p>Not sure what to make of this... I replied with a really brief "no problem" type of thing. She COULD see OM, but I hope she takes the opportunity to go to a hotel (alone) and think about things some more. When she's alone, she does tend to think more clearly on return.<p>Nice to see our C (I see her alone too) knows what IS best for my W!!

#2932527 11/30/01 10:07 AM
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JR,<p>why don't you send her a big bunch of flowers with a huge smiley - tell her you're there for her if she needs to talk [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] Or can you ICQ or SMS her and say you're thinking of her?<p>Good chance here to show your support - which I know you're taking advantage of [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>- Freddy


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