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i posted a letter before and i have to admit i am very new with this internet thing. anyway i have been reading some of the other posts out there and am really considering the concepts found in plan a and plan b. Ive been married 10 years already around 8 years ago my husband had an affair with my brothers wife. We got back together and as far as i know he remained faithful to me until two years ago. the problem is i also had an affair but i am no longer seeing the OM. My husband also started having an affair around the same time but his is still going on. I still live in the house with our two kids and he just waltzes in any time he wants to, mostly 5:30-7am. He blames me for the way he lives saying that the way he lives now is my fault. Around a year and a half ago shortly after my A i rededicated my life to Christ. I really want to make a go of it. I hope someone is out there reading this its 10pm where i am
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dotty,<p>just wanted to let you know that we're reading [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] And welcome to MB. You'll get used the internet thingy, kinda becomes like home after a while.<p>You're story sounds like the both of you are quite mixed up. Any ideas about what you want to do? What your H might want to do? Are you ready to commit to the marriage? <p>take care and come back for a chat [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>- Freddy
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Hi Dotty. Read everything you can on this site. If you are serious about wanting to rebuild your marriage, then plan A your husband as best you can.<p>I really don't think you are in any position to go to plan B anytime soon. Plan B is meant as a last resort to try and help you move on with your life w/o your spouse. It's possible the spouse may do a 180 and come back, but I've seen it go both ways.<p>Please come back and let us know how you make out. Your H and you have a lot of work ahead of you if you do want to make your marriage work. I highly suggest a MC if you ever do decide to reconcile.<p>HbH
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Also, go to any recent post from redhat and you will find there links to all the posts for newcomers. They are very helpful. Read everything you can on this site and then try to decide what you want to do. Good Luck! K
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