Haven't been here in a long time. Don't know if some remember me? Hope and wishes of better for ALL of you!<p>I'm still struggling with all this. WH is still with OW (far as I know)...16 months going on 17. WH and I have no contact (his choice), except for court appearances, at which OW accompanies him. <p>Aug. OW appeared at hearing pregnant, when WH took me to court for THINGS he wanted(another hearing to be scheduled). <p>Sept. another court hearing, charges against WH, OW not pregnant(oops she is on crutches with a brace on her leg?) Did she have it or lose it? Sorry to say, but if it was lost it would be a God send to all. Neither one looked to happy...actually they looked bad. Wonder if what they put out is coming back to them? <p>Nov. had another court date..but they didn't have a Judge available..was rescheduled. This was on his appeal for THINGS, the first Judge threw it out previously. <p>I got a phone call that a message was left for WH. Debated if I should call him. Called him..he didn't answer, but called me back. I gave him the message, thought WH was being civil, but than he started yelling..was I going to give him THINGS. WH still had an attitude. <p>Looks like divorce is inevitable...this is what WH wants. WH is hateful and telling lies to everyone. Don't understand why he has chosen this self destructive life, but it is HIS choice. WH has developed an attitude that anything goes, this is apparent with what he has done and is doing, resulting in charges, judgments, liens, etc. Hard to believe since WH had higher expectations and a different lifestyle when he was with me. Maybe it's true...you are the company you keep, because OW is low. <p>Thank you for reading this. Encouragement and advice needed. This is extremely hard, any reply appreciated.