Haven't been here in a long time. Don't know if some remember me? Hope and wishes of better for ALL of you!<p>I'm still struggling with all this. WH is still with OW (far as I know)...16 months going on 17. WH and I have no contact (his choice), except for court appearances, at which OW accompanies him. <p>Aug. OW appeared at hearing pregnant, when WH took me to court for THINGS he wanted(another hearing to be scheduled). <p>Sept. another court hearing, charges against WH, OW not pregnant(oops she is on crutches with a brace on her leg?) Did she have it or lose it? Sorry to say, but if it was lost it would be a God send to all. Neither one looked to happy...actually they looked bad. Wonder if what they put out is coming back to them? <p>Nov. had another court date..but they didn't have a Judge available..was rescheduled. This was on his appeal for THINGS, the first Judge threw it out previously. <p>I got a phone call that a message was left for WH. Debated if I should call him. Called him..he didn't answer, but called me back. I gave him the message, thought WH was being civil, but than he started yelling..was I going to give him THINGS. WH still had an attitude. <p>Looks like divorce is inevitable...this is what WH wants. WH is hateful and telling lies to everyone. Don't understand why he has chosen this self destructive life, but it is HIS choice. WH has developed an attitude that anything goes, this is apparent with what he has done and is doing, resulting in charges, judgments, liens, etc. Hard to believe since WH had higher expectations and a different lifestyle when he was with me. Maybe it's true...you are the company you keep, because OW is low. <p>Thank you for reading this. Encouragement and advice needed. This is extremely hard, any reply appreciated.

Hi there!!!<p>Have wondered where you've been. Sorry to hear that things have not gotten any better. It does sound like you are making some progress in coming to terms with things and moving on.<p>I will not say "glad to have you back" because I wish you did not need this forum any longer. Others will be along.<p>{{{{{hurtwife}}}}}

Hello Hurtwife...I remember you!<p>Sorry to hear the rollercoaster ride is still on...but you sound stronger.<p>I hope that means you are doing things for you.<p>My rollercoaster has evened out a bit...I don't know where it is headed, but I try to just take it one day at a time.<p>Cali

I'm glad to hear that you're doing okay... as best as you can for now. I'm sorry too, that your H hasn't changed his attitude much. But it is true that your tone sounds much better. I'm glad you came back for support if you need it. We're always here for each other [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>BTW, I was going to respond to your email a few months ago... but it got deleted by accident (in a massive cleanout). I hope you didn't feel like I was ignoring you.<p>Take care,
Karen

Hi HW, <p>It has been a while. Good to hear from you and glad to know you are holding your own. <p>Sorry your H sounds like he is still out there with another psyco xprego. These women are just plain crazy. That is their choice and well we have to accept it and move on. <p>Please keep in touch here. <p>Take Care & Hugz,
L.