Hi i am a 23 year old mom of 3 boys but 2 live with me and my husband one is 3 and the youngest is 1 ,my h is 40 i am starting to feel like this marraige was the biggest mistake
the age gap never mattered before i never even thought about it but now when weget into arguments (which is all the time now) he tells me to grow up and it make me extrmely pissed off . he is still very good friends with some of his exgirlfriends and in his everyday life .not to long ago he went over to his friends house who his exgirlfriend is now with and i told him i didnt want him to go over there he told me to grow up and went flying out of the driveway and didnt come home untill like 3 in the morning ..
now he has been leaving at night and not coming home untill 3 4 sometimes later than that .wehn i ask him where he has been he tells me "hell " then gets mad and the fights on
helpppp!!! [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]<p>[ December 08, 2001: Message edited by: Mixed Emotions ]</p>

Mixed, Sorry you are feeling the rejection of H. Have you lost the ability to meet each others needs? When he comes home that late, is he drunk? If he comes home sober, I would wonder where he is and with who? It doesn't look good and there may be an OW. Regardless, the way he is treating you is unacceptable. You certainly have a right to know where he is and what he is doing. HE IS YOUR H.<p>Have you read the newcomers information? Read about Basic concepts by W. Harley and keep looking at ways that you can communicate with H better.....hope there is no A but I also hope that if there is, you will discover it cause his behavior is not right for a H and you need to know what the monster is you are fighting.<p>Keep reading and check out the articles to learn more.<p>TW