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I am so depressed tonight! I started plan B last Thursday and my WH is loving it a bit too much! He forwarded all the mail to his new PO box, he blocked our bank accounts and opened a new one for him, and he canceled our e-mail accounts and opened a new one for him. How do I keep from LBing? I hate what he is doing to me and our kids! He hasn't asked to see them at all! They did get a 2 minute phone call tonight, but that's all other than him showing up at a couple of our son's hockey games and then leaving as soon as they were over.<p>Help! I hate this! Where is all this selfishness coming from? He is such a different person now!<p>Le
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Oh gosh, I'm so sorry.<p>I hate this hurt.
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hi<p>youre not alone. im feeling for you right now, i know some of your pain, been there. i'm not really good for advice on marriage but hang in there. i wish i could send you some hope, but right now that might be recieved empty. hang in there and get it out of your system. sorry i cant help, but i can listen.<p>dancer
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I'm sorry, Moving FOrward. I know it's hard. <p>....hugggsssssss.....<p> I'm not sure what to say except that Plan B is as much for you as Plan A was. Take this oppurtunity to become stronger as an individual. FOcus on your kids and you. As much as we KNOW this, it's still hard: When you move to Plan B, you must be willing to accept whatever happens to the marriage. Be strong. Remember that Plan B si still an effort to save your marriage - it's NOT filing D. H may be trying to push your buttons... <p>Hang in there!!! We're here for you if you need to talk about it some more.
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Moving forward,<p>I like your name and that is what you are doing, moving forward and that is what plan B is about!!!!<p>You can do this you are strong!!<p>The selfishness, is the fog, the affair, the stupidity. It's not coming from the man that you loved and married.<p>Stay strong you can do this, don't LB!! Come here!!<p>There aren't many out here tonight and I am sorry for that!! I am only available at night as I don't have one of those jobs that let you be on the computer all day, so I have to hope there are people here that can help when I need it!!<p>Again stay strong you can do this let the crap that he says and does roll off your back, don't react to h im that is what he wants and then you come out looking like the bad guy, not him.<p>Dawn
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I can't stop crying and shaking tonight! I hate plan B! I wanted to plan A forever, but he kept walking all over me! Sooooo many lies! I love him so much and it's killing me not to see him! I know that plan B is about me, but for 16 years it's been about us! How do I get through this?<p>Le
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You cry if that is what you need to do, then you get up shake yourself off and mov forward, What else is there to do?
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Daybreak<p>Actually tonight I can think of 100's of things to do! Unfortunately, most of them would put me in prison!<p>It is so hard to be strong when we (the BS) hasn't/didn't/isn't creating all the pain!!<p>Thanks for the support!
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Glad that I could be there for you!! Am sorry that there wasn't support for me tonight!! But that is ok, I am strong and have had to deal with all of this myself, don't seem to ask the questions in the right way to get peoples attention.<p>Please don't do anything that will land you in jail!! It would not be worth it!! Your kids need you to be there for them.<p>Dawn
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I think that "TerriT" needs more support than me tonight! I am going to sign off and pray!<p>Thank you all!!<p>Le
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