continued contact is driving me crzy, I cannot elaborate right now because I have to get back to work. I would greatly value advice... I am sooo hurt by his continued contact... MY h goes so far to say... I just won't let him have any friends, and he can be friedns with whoever he wants... what is wrong with Female friends... OH well, it is destroysing our marriage, so how about that???<p>thanks, Lisa [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]

Your not crazy - he is.<p>Have you tried Plan B?

Well, My H is definitely crzy right now.. thanks for reminding me... I am thinking of plan bing because... he seems to think when I am nice to him.. why not walk on me... <p>He can, not pay our bills, live in his own house, have a party... and still get to see me for fun and dates, in fact about the same amount of time as he spent with me pleasantly when married... 1x a week seeing me for sf, and that is about all he HAS to have of me. I even went so far as to clean for him at his house last week trying to make love deposits.... well I have only plan a'ed for a little over a month.... and had a few days wehn I could not. Todayy I brought him lasagna and * ilet him borrow our vaccum so that he would not go buy a new one... he trhreatedned that... and me and my kids are dead broke... he is waiting for some money and says his paymen t for us will be late... merry christmas. Thanks - you are such a sweet H, he is starting to make me want the divorce. I am so tired of hearing how awful I am.<p>thanks for input.
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