You are or were with a married man. Doesn't matter the reasons he gives you...doesn't matter the justifications...she could be Medusa...doesn't matter...<p>He's NOT married to you.<p>You could have one or a dozen reasons why you are willing to settle for a married man....again doesn't matter.<p>He's not married to you.<p>You are persona non grata. "My" own OW told me that she was NOT the problem in my marriage.<p>hmmmm....food for thought...now, I kinda like it when ya'll post...'cause then I can let fly...all the nasty, negative things I'd like to say to OW just trip through my fingers...<p>MM lies to wife...and lies to you. I used to call "my" OW...tell her a few truths...really shook her up...see ya'll don't frighten me...<p>...My WH has lost his way...but I believe in him and I have faith God will shine a light on his path...and there's naught you can do...<p>bottomline....You aren't married to him. Do yourself a favor...get out of his life until he has his issues worked out...and is out of his marriage...<p>...then work on your own issues...why are you so willing to settle for half a man...illicit passion...uncommitted love...

Ooops wrong OP thread.<p>[ December 19, 2001: Message edited by: Hi Infidelity ]</p>