I know this may sound crazy to be complaining about, but, my H can't stop his mouth when he starts spitting things out! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] <p>We have been in Radical Honesty since D-Day #3, when I found this site and printed the questionaires. The first time he refused to fill parts of it, acting deffensive, like if I was going to go to the local newspaper and have it printed out or something [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] why? I don't know, not that I'd think anybody actually cared btw! lol<p>When he finally filled all the blanks, ( a couple of weeks later after I stated quite openly that it was very untrustworthy of him to keep on not wanting to be REALLY honest with him), he did it with all kinds of goresque details which I really didn't need to know and that the blanks couldn't even hold [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] . <p>I explained to him very sweetly (and repressing some nervous laughter), that those details were quite unnecessary and I'd live much happier without having those images on my head. He apologized.<p>A month after that I really wanted to hunt down OW and tell her some very nasty truths about herself, but I managed to control myself. I explained to my husband the why of my attitude (feeling I never could deffend myself against her and that he really sold me cheap and never stuck up for me). He decided to write a No Contact letter, even though we weren't going to send it because neither of us know-care where the hell she is.<p>The letter started ok, but then while being openly angry and nasty towards her there were a whole lot of things I'd rather not know. He showed me the first part and told him to start over and be (oh please please), less graphic. [img]images/icons/blush.gif" border="0[/img] <p>I am not sure why he has this problem, or well he doesn't tell me anything, or he can't shut up and tells me ALL about it.
This has taken many sleepless nights and a big deal of desire from me to him. I am finding it awfully difficult to concentrate with all this movies on my head, (Movies I didn't even have before he went on and on and on and on...).<p>Sheesh I think he got the Radical Honesty a bit too literal? I don't know [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img]
