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Joined: Dec 2001
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I was just wondering if any of you guys ever watch the show Cheaters? I watched it last week and just had to tune into it tonight. I was wondering if any of you would ever consider doing something like that or would it be considered a MAJOR LB? For those who don't know the show, it's where a Spouse or partner has suspisions on infidelity and they call and have these investigators follow and tape everything the suspected spouse/partner is doing. If the investigators find anything, they show the betrayed partner and then let them confront the two while they are together. I know I would have been absolutely MORTIFIED if something like that had happened.
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Joined: May 2001
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Saved by Grace,<p>I assume, from this post, that you are the WS?<p>I've never seen or heard of the show. Really don't watch much TV. But I've seen such things on other shows.... My feeling of that type of thing is that it would be a huge lovebuster. If a person would want to recover their marriage, I think exposing it to the world in that manner would truely cause more problems. <p>On the other hand, if the BS is ready to walk away from the marriage.... I guess it's their call. <p>I do not like the trend of let-it-all-hang-out tv shows. I would not want the most personal parts of my life broadcasted to the world. Being a BS I can understand the pain and confusion caused by an affair. But the WS's feeling also need to be taken into consideration.
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Hi, <p>I have seen it a few times and from what I saw most of those busted end up breaking up. <p>More than an LB, major embaressment. One that can not be reversed. You are on national TV!!! <p>I don't think MB would recommend it but it sure does make you think. In some of the scenes there is no remorse. <p>It is put on for the hype and like the tabloid it exploits those who go on it. <p>I thought about it but really really it is not a good thing. <p>L.
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It is a cruelty. If you do not have anything nice to contibute to M, don't do it, even you don't want M anymore.
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