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Should I invite WH to go skiing with kids?
#2937107 12/26/01 11:22 AM
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It has been awhile since I have posted, mainly because WH said he would have no-contact with OW back in Sept. until the end of the year. I have planned on taking S-15 and guest along with D-20 and go skiing. Both counselors IC & MC think that is a great idea while WH contemplates calling OW 300 miles away. WH has been fence sitting for over a year. He hasn't seen OW since last March - I think.<p> Daughter changed her plans to go later with college friends possibly. I have been thinking about inviting another female friend and her two girls to go with me, but I really don't want to purposefully exclude WH. I also think D just wants to stay home awhile and not travel. In some ways that my give the two of them time to talk.<p>Have to go, but I want to vent later. [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]
Re: Should I invite WH to go skiing with kids?
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Am not sure what the answer is for you. I would say go with your heart. If you invite WH can you handle being around him, knowing that he will want or will call OW? It's hard believe me I know WH is here visting he live 12hrs away from us and 30+ hrs from OW. He did not go with us to church christmas eve and I know that he called her and has left most nights to get us cappauciano and calls her. It's something I have chosen to deal with so that the kids can be with their father, does it hurt? Like He((!!<p>Am not sure this helps, ask the kids what do they want?<p>Best wishes, and no matter what enjoy your time away from home and do not run into any trees, on the slopes!!!<p>Dawn

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