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My WS has lost her house key, should I get her a new one. She has moved out and is living with the OM. She still has a little of her stuff here and comes by occasionally to wash her clothes. What should I do, give her a key or what? I want her to feel welcome in my home, but I'm worried that she will feel like she can always come back and not be worried about her relationship with the OM. Kinda like, keeping the door open for her is an escape if the A doesn't work and she can come back to me anytime she wishes. That is the truth, she can, but there will be alot of working on each other when she does. Does this make any sense. Should I give her a key?
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I am not Kev, with that being said.<p>What do you want to do? How did she lose her key? Has she asked for one?<p>If you give her a key, you are opening up your door for her coming and going freely, can you handle this? If you don't give her a key is that an major LB? showing that you don't want her back? <p> You have to do what is comfortable for you. It is all so hard, you ask for advice, you listen and read what others think but it is still your decision to make no one else can make it for you!!<p>Dawn
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Thanks for the reply, I think it just might be a LB. She hasn't asked for one, but she did tell me she lost it. Maybe that's an indication that she wants another. I don't mind her coming and going as she pleases. If I get her a key, maybe it might be a deposit. I'll get a key made and see what happens. Thanks for the info Dawn. It's not Dawn C is it?
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No it's not Dawn C, it's a Dawn B!!!<p>Maybe ask her if she needs a new one, perhaps would open a dialgoue for you!<p>Dawn B
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Thanks Dawn B. That's a good idea. I guess within all this emotional roller coaster stuff I didn't even think about that. Feel stupid now.<p>What is a morning nimbus in the sky? If you are the answer email me.<p>Thanks to everyone for all the help and suggestions, I am trying to be patient and all your support IS helping. Again, Thank You! Jasn L.
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