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Hi Bears and Dawn,<p>Can you let us know how you two are please? [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Bears,<p>How's the Plan B going? Has H made any attempt to breach it?<p> Dawn,<p>Have you heard anything regarding H since he went home to Utah, Hon?<p>Love, Jo
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Hi Jo,<p>Not a peep from H. Haven't seen him for 3 weeks now. He got a special present for Christmas from me, not a word about that, no presents for me , no Christmas wishes, nothing. He received the plan B letter 2 weeks ago. I quess it will just be time and patience what's needed now. Sigh. I am still keeping the 2 year "A dying it's natural death" time frame in my mind.(will be in May02) A is full on, and hopefully H spends every possible minute, 24/7 with OW and her 3 kids, more chances for her to LB and for H finally see what she really is!!So you could say I'm really plan Bing my butt off!!!No desperate needs to contact H, makes me feel sick to even think to hear his uncaring cold, distant alien voice, or either facing an another angry outburst. Surely helps me to stay away.
It's hard enough to see H walking out of the M, but for what...? OW isn't the greatest catch, and looks like she knows it too, that's why the desperate clinging on to my H. I wonder if she's ever heard the saying: Don't base your happiness on someone else's misery.
I am working on myself, and the great advise here is very helpful.
Thanks Jo, I'll keep you posted.
Take care.
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Okay, good deal Bears. Sounds like you're doing good in Plan B .... but, what's with the Christmas present to H? Isn't that meeting a need of his, Hon?<p>Thank you for responding. Please keep us updated.<p>p.s. You're right about wanting H to spend 24/7 with OW, better chance for the A to die it's natural death quicker. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Love, Jo<p>[ December 28, 2001: Message edited by: Resilient ]</p>
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Ooops! You are right Jo, the present doesn't fit in plan B. Good you reminded, H's birthday is getting close, no more pressies...Poor H, has to rely on only OW's ones now. Tough and getting tougher...
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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by BearsInForest: <strong>Ooops! You are right Jo, the present doesn't fit in plan B. Good you reminded, H's birthday is getting close, no more pressies...Poor H, has to rely on only OW's ones now. Tough and getting tougher... Thanks.</strong><hr></blockquote><p>No worries, Bears. It takes some time to get used to NOT being in Plan A (meeting needs) anymore, once in Plan B.<p>Please, really do keep us updated.<p>Lv, Jo
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