My WS is seeing a shrink (it's shorter than phy..please don't be offended) because I had left country and she had a mental breakdown and depression and anxiety kicked in really bad. She had been on an antidepressant for about a year, by suggestion of her family practitioner. Well, she went to see this shrink to get help for that and the shrink determined that she had a problem with anxiety attacts. My WS won't talk to me much about what she and her shrink talk about, but what she does tell me is that she feels really comfortable with her. She has told me that her shrink has told her that she has alot of stress in her life and needs to figure out what that stress is and get rid of it. Well, I'm the stress, according to my WS. So she sees that she needs to get away from me. She's only seen this shrink 3 times so far and has another appointment soon. About every three weeks. I think that she has told her shrink about the D, but she has yet to have a chance to talk to her about...she's already moved out, she's living with the OM, who was my BF, and who says that he loves her too. What I'm concerned about is that this shrink may be suggesting to her to leave. I don't know if that's the case or not. But I did ask my WS if I could go with her to a session so I could help the shrink with whatever problems that my WS might have. She talked to the shrink about it and the shrink didn't think it was a good idea because it might be a conflict of interest. That doesn't make sense. If she wants to help my WS, then why wouldn't she want to know more about what's going on. To get to the ROOT of the problem. Isn't that what they're there for? When my WS told me this, I said I understood and that it was OK. I'm worried that her shrink may be telling her to leave. Could I be right? She values her shrinks opinion alot and will probably do as she says. I worry because someone told me a story about a lady that went to a shrink years ago and they told her to leave her husband and then later the lady wished she had never left her spouse. She listened to her shrink and the shrink was wrong. I know there's not anything I can do about what her shrink tells her, I'm just looking for some opinions.