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Citydweller,
My wife and I split up for the 3rd time 3/2002, after selling out house. we moved back together the very end of May. we've been doing well with the bumpy terain.
While my W was torn between the OM and me she was very in the fog. I couldn't break through, she went from being happy with him and making life plans to being so sorry for being so bad to me.
Try to separate from her a bit emotionally(focus on the kids and taking care of youself) and try to see things from her point of view. She is so confused right now and she doesn't know if OM is going to treat her right , and if things don't work out with him will you rub her face in all this forever.
God luck and God bless.
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She doesn't want to be reminded for the rest of her life.
EXACT words my wife said to me.
They talk and talk and talk but not much (usually) gets done unless they get others to do it for them or they get pushed.
The same form I printed just 2 days ago would not print.
Perhaps you are being told something?
<small>[ January 13, 2003, 02:24 PM: Message edited by: Chris (CA123) ]</small>
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