Well, I am glad that I have taken away her pleasure in her vibe! I was getting very sick and tired of seeing that she had been using it and not making herself available to me.

I decided to destroy that thing without her knowing that I did. I put water in it several times and turned it on. At first I was disappointed because it did not stop working right away. But after a few days, I checked it and it wasn’t working anymore – Yippee!

Well, last week my wife and I were finally together physically for the first time in over a month, (typical) and the first comment out of her ***edit*** mouth as we were getting it on was, “man it sure would be good if we had the vibrator right now to use”, “it has been broken now for about a week”. I was pissed but was also happy to know that she knew that it wasn’t working anymore for her. Get used to not being able to use the vibe, **edit**!

<small>[ October 01, 2004, 01:27 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

risky --

I suggest you work on MB concepts to fix problems instead of the underhanded tactics you used.

I have reported this post.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> and the first comment out of her ***edit***mouth as we were getting it on </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Get used to not being able to use the vibe, ***edit***!
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">risky,

So, why do you want to have sex with a woman that you have such derogatory comments for?

It sounds like you have ZERO respect for her as a person, with the comments that you make and the name that you called her.

Why should SHE be intimate with you if this is the way you talk about her...and for some reason I think that you might talk TO her like this.

JMHO
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<small>[ October 01, 2004, 01:29 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

If you were my H my first call(after a call to the divorce attorney) would be to "Good Vibrations" to order a new toy.

Seriously, if you hate this woman so much as to call her what you did and think of her the way you do why sleep with her. I know I could sense that kind of hostility and wouldn't let me H near me with a ten foot pole.

You might want to explore why she prefers her vibrator to you, that seems to be the problem not the toy in and of itself.

risky scheme's wife had an affair. Perhaps a vibrator is like another man?

risky scheme

Communication is the key. You and your W need to talk (peaceably and openly) about SF. If she is mentioning the vibrator during SF, she is definitely trying to tell you something.

It might not necessarily be about performance. From being a woman, and talking to a lot of other women over the years, I know that sometimes when we don't want to have SF with our H's, it's because we're harboring anger and resentment about something (or a lot of somethings).

Do you have an MC? What are you doing to work on the M?

Rose