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#2944247 01/18/03 10:33 AM
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Does anybody know a web site where you can get the name of a persons unlisted cell phone # for free? I believe my wife is either, or about to have an A. I don't want her to know that I'm snooping, and all the sites I've found it costs around $75, and she would see that on the bill. Plus, I can't afford it. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

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Why do you want to find this name/number?

Let me guess - you suspect this will lead you to her OM?

Is it the name or number you're looking for?

I suggest that if you have the number, call it. If you have the name, do you know this person?

#2944249 01/18/03 11:07 AM
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I know the number, and I have called it, but the OM just says "leave a message". I believe he works where my wife does, so I don't know what to do without her finding out.

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Am I correct that this number shows up more than a few times on the bill?

What have you asked your wife about it?

What other things make you suspect an affair?

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#2944251 01/18/03 11:26 AM
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Imdevastated, have you found it on the cell phone bill? If so, can't you call the phone company and tell them you do not recognize the number and ask them to identify it? They usually do that for you. I have a couple of sites but I don't know if you'll get what you need. However here they are. Hope one works for you.Have you also tried the reverse phone number search? God bless, LouLou

http://www.freeality.com/

http://www.infospace.com/info.finger/?ran=7658

Freeality Email Addresses and Reverse Lookup - ... US Search, NET Detective Uncover the TRUTH About ANYONE. Cell-Phone-Numbers.com Reverse Cell Lookup. ... Cell. 1 Time Charge.. ... TRAVEL. Dial-UP / DSL / Hosting. ...
http://www.freeality.com/findet.htm

free criminal checks, address search, criminal backround checks, ... - ... Find a cell phone numbers owner and their address Find unlisted phone numbers Check up on the new person who wants to date you. ...
http://www.pet-match.com/testimonials.html
Anybody Anywhere Directory Page - ... The Payphone Project Look up payphone locations by number ... choose a password to sign up, then download ... Reverse Cell Phone Info Center Reverses cell phone numbers ...
http://www.strangepages.net/search.html

I do know Freeality has a free lookup, but might not always give you what you are looking for. Worth a try though.

#2944252 01/19/03 01:53 AM
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <<<<<<<<<<<<this is me writing down all this info, I love snooping.

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If none of the above works, why not have someone you know and trust call the number & see who it is? They could leave a message to call back thier phone #, preferably another cell or a # that wife would not know just in case.

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#2944254 01/18/03 04:18 PM
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Finding the name to this # is the last piece of the puzzle. No, I have not asked the wife about this number. The reason being is she is just about ready to leave as it is. The last conversation we had was her refusing to go to counciling Mon. morning. She said that the only things that were keeping her here was the kid's 3 & 6, it would destroy us financially, and that she is terrified to be alone, which leads me to believe that the OM is married also.Since that conversation, she has spent every night since at her mom's, and I have the kids, except for tonight. I dont know if asking her about the number would push her even farther away, or not. Right now I think it would. She will be home in 1 hr. to pick up our son, do you all think I should say something, or would that be a major LB?

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I am trying to recover from an affair that began with the cell phone, I am an UH. I think that the best way is to ask your wife directly. My husband din't have to ask because I told him about the A.
Because this OM, work outside the country so many times, the "relationship", has been exclusively by cell phone. Until later. He stopped like three weeks ago to send messages and those messages were declining a month earlier. So I suspect he is now beginning to seduce someone else, the best way he knows ...by cell phone.
I tell my story because I just imagined reading this ....what if he is calling your wife???...but thinking better that would be an incredible coincidence and I suppose you live in the States while I live in Europe...if no I would be probably the person that would have the number.
That would be like a film


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