Hi Neil,

Glad to hear you are feeling better. Sorry to hear about clothes problem. That's girls for you-wear it for 5 mins and then change,and previous item requires cleaning-what on earth is your excuse?

Weekends away sounds good. And time for you is definitely good-what about Grandma helping out?

Deluded

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Porsche 4Sale:
<strong>.... although a complete inability to put clothes away is prevalent in all of us.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I have loundry basket in each bed room & bath room. It works well for us <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> . I don't have to hire cleaning lady yet ... but when it get out of hand you have an option to hire them.

-rh-

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Deluded of Devon:
<strong>That's girls for you-wear it for 5 mins and then change,and previous item requires cleaning-what on earth is your excuse?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I wear a suit by day and a billion T-Shirts by night <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> my W always laughed that I was addicted to T-Shirts <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Of course they can't be washed if they have only been worn for a few hours!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><strong>And time for you is definitely good-what about Grandma helping out?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Am all outta Grandma vouchers <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Neil.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:
<strong>I have loundry basket in each bed room & bath room.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thats Mr Red SENSIBLE Hat to you Neil <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

<small>[ January 24, 2003, 01:49 PM: Message edited by: Porsche 4Sale ]</small>

Try wearing only one t-shirt at a time Neil . Just a suggestion!!

Deluded

Today Mr. Angry appeared. Mr. Very Angry. He sorta sprung up out of nowhere really.

Came from the little things - the fact that I couldn't get a pair of school shoes for YD, and she badly needs a new pair. 1.5 hrs in the shop and she couldn't find any she liked, the service was crap (you americans have no idea what bad service is til you come to the uk!), we left empty footed <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> this is the kind of thing W did so well and I blew it.

Then the Pet Store was out of Snakes, they lost it the girls and started crying as that was going to be the highpoint of the day. Then the food store was sghut for all the Ice Cream Maker stuff... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

So what should have been a good day disintegrated <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> then YD was way to stressed and upset about break up to do her homework, so now has a letter to teacher saying such.

I have calmed down now thankfully but am wrecked and tired. Thanks for listening to me rabbit on and on! Neil.

Hey Neil

You're allowed to rabit on, you're allowed a bad day.

Seriously think you should reconsider the whole snake thing....

Lisa

Neil,

I lost your email ... could you email me ?. I have a few questions for you.

Ditto Lisa ... why snakes ?.

About your YD, I had that problem too but I made a rule ... in my family when it is a need, you better find one or I will find it for you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> . Everyone get the message <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> .

-rh-

W cant get YD shoes so I will leave it til next weekend Sunday when they come home from hers on Saturday night.

We have had just about every pet going and Snake is looking like the favourite right now <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

It won't be THAT big... Neil.

PS. Redhat you got mail.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Porsche 4Sale:
<strong>PS. Redhat you got mail.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Got it.

Quick question ... how long do you think this snake will entertain your family before they get bored and you have to put up with it or send them back. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> otherwise you will have a petting zoo very soon.

-rh-

Not sure Redhat, we were investigating what was required. Neil.

Yes, I was going to say DITTO Red Hat re shoes. She's 7 and they're for school - frankly, I still tell the girls at 14 and 18 "Choose, otherwise I will!!!" That usually scares them witless <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Lisa

P.S. Say no to snakes - get something cuddly!

Lisa, have you ever cuddled a snake <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

We are going to get the shoes on Sunday. I have decided to reduce my MC (have posted a thread on that in the Divorce Forum). My NC continues and I am doing OK at the moment.

Sometimes it just feels like total drudgery moving from one day to the next. I often wonder if she feels like that also. Neil.

I've gone back toa semblance of a plan B pre-dv, I haven't sent a letter thought about it last week, even told W I was going to send one.

But she said that I was asking her back, and OM2 was asking her back and that she was seeing OM5 and I figured what's the point? She knows I can't do anything whilst A's are ongoing. She knows where I am, if they stopped we could talk but as a friend told me the other day "she needs me to blame everything on".

If you are divorced please check out my Hard Today and Practical Help - Daughters in the Divorcing Forum. Could do with some views there. Thanks Neil.

Best Wishes Neil.

Hi Neil,

Wow, I sure have a lot to catch up on. I thought your user was Porsche911?!?!? I did not see a response from her to my post on the d/d thread. Maybe she is boycotting me??!?! Oh well, I check up on her about once a day.

You seem to be doing better (snake, shoes,life, etc). These ups and downs will happen. Don't panic....no shoes or no snake is not the end of the world.... now no chocolate may qualify for federal relief but everything else is doable.

take care,
L.

Orchid, she has told me her internet access is due to expire so I doubt she will be back other than to read <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Neil

Look at the flip side:

Reading is good. Hard to give foggy comments when you can only read.

JMHO,
L.

I mean't following what I am writing and using it as fuel for the hurt that she blames me for rather than her abusers and family <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />