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Please read x- swingers and tell me what u think!

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Everyone,
Here is a link to MKE's original thread; maybe someone can give him some advise.
X-Swingers

MKE,
This link is to another thread concerning swinging. Thought it might help to read some, even though it's not exactly in line with your situation.
Should husband let wife share house with lover?

Here are a couple of links to my threads which may or may not help. The first couple give some background, the last couple deal with withdrawl and guilt associated with our situation. Again, your situation is very different than mine, but maybe this will help, at least you got out before it got too bad.
The Whole Story #1
The Whole Story #2
How do you deal with WS emotional loss of OM? (GQII)
How do you deal with WS emotional loss of OM?? (In Recovery)

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thanks for your help. You can tell I'm new at this stuff. I think you were making these links as I was rewritng it in general ll. O-well thanks again for your help

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No problem, just trying to help. Don't get discouraged if you don't get a lot of responses right away. I have found people tend to read, then sit back and think before they post. And, your situation WILL scare some people off. As I said, there are very few of us who understand where you have been, and it seems that we're all new here too!

Keep your chin up, keep reading, see if you can get her to do some reading.


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